A coming-out drama devoid of joy or affirmation, ‘El Houb’ looks at an angst-ridden gay Arab immigrant’s life in Amsterdam.
While its story trips fluidly back and forth in time, much of the action in Shariff Nasr’s drama El Houb remains, like the film’s Moroccan-Dutch protagonist Karim, confined to a single location: the Amsterdam apartment of Karim’s parents.
Co-written by Nasr and Philip Delmaar, the film is based on events in the life of Moroccan-Dutch stage and screen actor Fahd Larhzaoui, who stars as Karim, a taciturn, Arab immigrant Vin Diesel lookalike, introduced tooling around the city streets in his luxury two-seater convertible.
El Houb is no sunny, free-wheeling, coming-out romp, but rather a perpetually gray, solemn account of Karim trying to get his traditional Arab family to come to terms with the fact he’s gay.
He has, up to this point, led everyone to believe he’d dutifully fulfil his masculine role of marrying a nice Arab girl and starting a family of his own. It’s what everyone in his community expects of him, as he’s reminded when his parents’ neighbour, Fouad (Yahya Gaier), seeing Karim pull up in his convertible, asks, “Where are you going to put the child seats?”
Little does Fouad know. “I’m never getting married. Not with a woman,” Karim announces to his parents, after his father Abbas (Slimane Dazi) catches him with Ghanaian lover Kofi (Emmanuel Ohene Boafo). The reaction from Karim’s mother Fatima (Lubna Azabal) is swift and decisive: “Go away,” she tells him. “Out.” But Karim stands his ground, sort of — he locks himself inside the hall closet of his parents’ apartment, and refuses to come out until they can all discuss this rationally, like a family.
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Thus barricaded in their apartment, with control of the main power switches, Karim hopes to reason with Abbas and Fatima, while, in a series of flashbacks (featuring bald-pated Larhzaoui in a distracting wig), he recalls the path that led him, literally, back into the closet of his childhood home.
Structured loosely to depict scenes from Karim’s childhood, as well as his out gay life — meeting Kofi on the throbbing dance floor of a club, for example — the movie keeps returning to the closet, from whence Karim shares his feelings with whomever is there to listen.
In turn, Abbas and Fatima each have a scene to monologue outside the closet door, expressing their objections. Karim’s younger, not terribly sensitive, brother Redouan (Sabri Saddik) has his say, too. The monologues volleyed through the closet door, and the balanced but staid composition of the camerawork, lends to the impression we’re watching a filmed stage play that’s determined to strike just one note insistently, repeatedly.
Offering very little uplift, the film commits to the possibility that the love Karim’s parents feel for him — El Houb translates to “the love” in Arabic — might not be enough to bridge their differences. Every coming-out movie, just like every real-life coming-out story, doesn’t necessarily end in hugs and rainbows.
Karim’s parents want to call their imam for his advice, but Karim can only recall that the same imam also counseled Karim’s cousin and best friend Soufian (Nasrdin Dchar), whom, we learn, should have sought more understanding counsel.
Cast
Fahd Larhzaoui – Karim Zahwani
Lubna Azabal – Fatima Zahwani
Slimane Dazi – Abbas Zahwani
Sabri Saddik – Redouan Zahwani
Shad Issa (Young) Karim Zahwani(as Shad Issa Abdullah)
Yahya Gaier – Fouad
Emmanuel Ohene Boafo – Kofi(as Emmanuel Boafo)
Britte Lagcher – Eline
Nasrdin Dchar – Soufian
Walid Benmbarek – Mo
Esma Abouzahra – Zainab
Rayan Belrhazi Alaoui – (Young) Soufian
Mahjoub Benmoussa – Imam Mahdi
Omar Ahaddaf – Hasan
Sebastian Mrkvicka – Bjorn(as Sebastián Mrkvicka)
Ahmed Salah – Father Soufian
Fjodor Jozefzoon – Chico
Celion Kerk – Ryan(as Cèlion Kerk)
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Producers by
Maaike Neve
Piet-Harm Sterk
Martien Vlietman
Joram Willink
Director – Shariff Nasr
Writters – Shariff Nasr, Philip Delmaar, Fahd Larhzaoui
Music – Vidjay Beerepoot
Cinematography by Joris Kerbosch
Film Editing by Michiel Boesveldt
Casting By Susanne Groen, Martha Mojet (casting children)
Production Design by Robert van der Hoop
Art Direction by Fenna Stapel
Costume Design by Fleur Enderberg
Where to Watch
Available to stream now. Watch it on Prime Video, Vudu or Apple TV on your Roku device. (as of 05/01/2023)
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